Hello Daniel,

This, by far, is one of my favorite subjects. At least that's the way I feel today. I often wonder about how so many people could experience anything other than wanton desire that moves toward passionate sexual arousal. My question has been the opposite. How do I turn it off?

Of course, the results of having internalized the skills of NLP has only added to my misery. Now, not only do I live in a state of heightened sexual arousal, it has become very contagious. Or is that contiguous, as the feelings have connected to everything else. I can't go anywhere without profoundly eliciting in those I come into contact with deeply felt arousal and attraction.

Putting the fun aside for a moment, let me seriously answer your question. First, you learn, in so far, the entire skill set called NLP, then you elicit anything you want, period. Now that we have all of that seriousness out of the way, far out of the way, we can get down to business. Which by the way, if you can't fill what you want to do with the best feelings you can have, is it really worth doing?

As near as I can tell, learning any one technique with an intent toward eliciting a particular state is a hit or miss proposition. That kind of idea is lacking in the kind of imaginative flexibility that travels toward mastery. Not just in getting sexual arousal, but in all areas.

There are several ways in which to understand your request. But to me, none of the them are as important as what came first -- the thought process that led to your having asked the question. Which leads me to believe that you have yet to become intimately familiar with the nuances of NeuroLinguistic Programming.

In other words, if you have to ask how to use it, then you haven't yet begun to have a clue about what you are very interested in, and would be best served by attending a training. To put it as clearly as I can. Once you have taken a training with one of the people I will list below, you will be able to elicit in anybody any state you want to -- anytime.

I guess it all comes down to how competently effective you want to be in life. NLP is not about any one thing. It is a totally new and different approach to mastering life. Gaining mastery in NLP is the same as gaining mastery with life. There are many people who have learned a few pieces of NLP who have mastered the art of premature closure. These are the same people who continually demonstrate what can't be done. But the truth of the matter is no one really knows the answer to that question. In fact, we hardly even know what to ask, let alone answer. As a species we have come a long way. But to even think we have reached the pinnacle of evolution - I don't think so!

For me, the process of learning NLP/DHE(TM) has been an adventure. One that has enhanced every single area of my entire world. Life for me is fantastic! I continue having the ongoing experience of being able to do what ever I want to do. I only work an average of three hours a day while making as much money as I want to. I am involved in the most enjoyable, caring, fun, loving, dynamic, pleasurable, intimate relationship imaginable. I do what I want, learn what I want, go where I want, get what I want, experience what I want to experience - always! In fact, my life while awake is far better than any dream I have ever had. And since I only need about three hours of sleep in every twenty-four hour period, I have plenty of time to enjoy it all.

Why stop at just sexual arousal and attraction when you could live all of your dreams? Every single one of them!

That is the way I see, hear and feel it. Allowing yourself to become totally immersed in the learnings of NLP will add value to your life that you have yet to become aware of. Abilities that go far beyond what most people even imagine. You said you were very interested -- now follow through with your interest. Not just here in a newsgroup that doesn't necessarily represent the kind of quality that exists inside the field of NLP, but in your own life. Take a training. Go for it.

Be well

Carmine