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Nested Loops in Trainings
Hello Dale,
Here is a rather quick explanation of nested loops from my own
perspective.
Before I go into a demonstrated example of how I use the idea
of nested loops, I want to first offer some of the reasons behind
nesting loops -- WHY I use them. . .
. . . And I also want you to be able to learn how to use
nested loops as well. First, I will list several of the reasons
for using nested loops, then, I will offer a limited description
of each of the reasons I do use them, then, I will tie it all
together by doing it for you.
Keep in mind--this is the way *I* do it, others may do it a
bit differently. The context I will be referring to while writing
this is training a group of people.
HERE ARE SOME OF THE REASONS FOR NESTING LOOPS
- 1. Chaining states of consciousness.
- 2. Preventing premature closure.
- 3. Imbedding information. (Very often I will open a set
of loops that are about ten deep, and I will imbed an
eleventh story inside of the ten loops).
- 4. Packaging the information being taught.
QUICK DESCRIPTION
- 1. CHAINING STATES OF CONSCIOUSNESS - Let's assume that
we are faced with group of individual personalities who
each have their own mind-set. What I want to do is to
begin loosening up this mind set as I begin a process of
chaining of states. So that when they try to think about
where they were when they came into the room they
automatically wind up in the new state I have installed,
which is designed toward leading them in a new direction.
- 2. PREVENTING PREMATURE CLOSURE - If any member of the
group were to close too soon on what was being taught,
that person could be running the risk of not getting all
of the pieces. By opening up one loop after the other I
am making sure they don't have an opportunity to close
prematurely. A good example of premature closure is
anyone who states that they "know" NLP.
- 3. EMBEDDING INFORMATION - Because I am opening up one
loop after the other, the conscious mind will not be able
to keep up. This allows me to embed the information and
the processes I am teaching at some other than conscious
level, where it needs to be so that the behaviors they
learn function automatically.
- 4. PACKAGING THE INFORMATION - Most skills that people
engage in are best reproduced in the order they are best
used. In driving a car it is best to start it first, then
put in gear, then go. The same is true for the physical
activity called NLP/DHE. When I am done with each of the
small pieces I am teaching, I go on to the next. When I
have completed a set of small pieces I want to be able to
tie them together in the order they will be used. I don't
want the student to have to think about what goes first,
second or third. I want the process to appear automatic,
like tying shoe laces. By going back and closing the
loops I have opened I am also tying the pieces together.
So that the order of the steps they were taught are
embedded at some other than conscious level.
HERE IS A QUICK EXAMPLE OF PROCESS IN ACTION
which was transcribed from an audio tape of a training I had
presented about a year ago. I did not edit it, I copied it in as
is. The most important parts are missing, voice tone, non-verbal
expression, anchoring the states that were elicited as I opened
to loops, etc.
TRANSCRIPT BEGINS
When I first began teaching NLP, I wasn't quite prepared for the
rate at which human beings can learn. It wasn't that often that I
had had the opportunity to. It's as if I had had my eyes closed
and I was in some kind of trance. All of these hypnotists wanting
to put people into trance. . .I have spent a life time getting
them out of the ones they were already in!! People ask me,
"Does hypnosis work" and I say, "Only too
well!"
I remember once being deep in thought, I was preparing myself
for a test for my first class FCC ticket. My preparation, I will
admit, was a bit late. Here I was in the federal building in
Miami, ten minutes from test time, riding in the elevator, going
over in my head -- Did I study enough for this test? Do I know
the information well enough? The last time I was here I passed
the first test, or was it the first time I was here I passed the
last test. I had all of this noise in my head when the elevator
door opened, I stepped out, onto the wrong floor. . . talk about
amnesia! . . .everything went quiet.
Some things I forget, some I remember, but if I can only
remember to forget to remember. . . WHAT was I wanting to forget.
Oh! I know, my very first sexual experience. You think lightning
strikes quickly! It was over before it started, yet it has stayed
with me for life. Now, when I think about it, I run it in slow
motion as I make it bigger than life, not only does it feel
better, but it lasts longer as well. And when I think about all
of the shitty experiences I had had. . . those I run by quickly.
. . in REVERSE!!! Kinda takes the sting right out of them.
You know they say that some people are learning disabled, yet
every time they bring me one of these people. . . Can you
imagine. . . it's just not true! There are no learning
disabilities! Only teachers who can't teach! I know, I used to be
one of them. . .
I remember when I was living on the streets, I hadn't yet
learned what couldn't be done. It is a certain kind of stupidity
that I have always possessed. Whenever I hear the words, "IT
CAN'T BE DONE" it doesn't register in my mind, in fact I do
the opposite! It's kinda like that Chuck Yeager guy, the one who
broke the sound barrier. As if it really existed in the first
place! They said to him if you break what is not there you and
your aircraft will disintegrate. How the hell did they know that?
He did it anyway! It's like that with everything else, people get
a little bit of information and they begin forming
generalizations, far too quickly. Try in vain. . . It is not just
about not being able to it's. . . there is a difference between.
. . it's in line with. . . . if I were to give an example of....
But before I go into that I want all of you to prepare to
separate into three. . . different groups of ten different
people. . . for the purpose of coming together to try on a new
experience. . . And I know that there ARE some NEW experiences. .
. that in the past. . . when THAT kind of OPPORTUNITY came along.
. . you jumped at it! Those of you who don't know what kind of
experiences I am talking about here have to stay late!! Now, the
only thing that is different here is that you are going to learn
how to use your own neurology in a way that works FOR you. . .
through time. . . in time. . . and between time. And you can be
as confused as you need to be in the processes that follow. . .
because, like walking, this is a physical activity in which you
are about to engage. . . so never mind getting the details, yet!.
. . your body can do it for you!!
An exercise that chains learning to out and out
exhilarating fun!!
One that first overlaps representational systems, then aligns
them, through time, in time, and between time.
One that chains closure on a subject to wanton curiosity.
Comment: I will now close some of the loops I
had opened while I open up a few for the next set of exercises.
You see, and I say. . . here, that when you learn to
synchronize your representational systems like this, the feeling
about what you are about to do, which is to absorb what it is you
are going to be doing over the next three days. . . Somebody
asked me the other day to first think about three things I am
totally convinced of, then after I had done so, to tell him what
they were. It didn't take me very long to come up with only three
things I was totally convinced of. The first one was that there
isn't anything that can't be done, it's just a matter of finding
a way to do it. That is of course if it's worth doing in the
first place, only after considering fully the total direction
that I am wanting to be moving toward. . . now and in the future.
. . the consequences this single choice will have on the total
meaning of my life. There are better things than wanting
something, getting what you wanted, and finding out it wasn't
what you wanted in the first place! This is usually a result of
not thinking through what you want in all of your rep-systems, in
the different ways that you can perceive time, and in all of the
different classes of context in which you occupy of on a daily
basis.
The second thing that I was totally convinced of is that human
beings can learn how to do anything, and it is even amazing at
what they can learn to enjoy doing. They brought me this kid who
was labeled cross-hemisphere and learning disabled. They said he
wasn't able to learn how to spell because of this. He said to me,
"They always talk at me, never do they realize that I have
some pretty good ways of doing things that work, they always
think I should be just like them." I taught him how to spell
as well as any gifted child could spell in about fifteen minutes.
I also taught him how to hypnotize his teachers so that they
could come to his world model and be able to communicate with him
in a way that he wanted to be communicated with. Then I added to
his world model something more than just being able to spell. . .
I added hope. . . and a reason to want to be able to continue
using what I had taught him!
The third thing that I came up with that I was totally
convinced of was, and still is, "I can change anything about
my behavior at any time and can so that it fits me like a
glove." I realized a long time ago that the idea of failure
is built around two things, the notion of time and the meaning of
preparation. I can't even count all the times when I had asked
someone to go inside and try on a set of process, and they did. .
. for about two seconds, and said to me it won't work! When I
look back at all of the tests I had taken in school, all of the
different things I had learned to do, I always set in my mind an
open end to the process of learning. As far as I am concerned
there is no end to learning anything. There may be a certain
level of skill that one might call mastery in any domain, but to
me that is only a beginning, when I am finally beginning to
understand what I can do with the skills I have acquired.
The funny thing is that when I presented my first NLP training
I was amazed at how quickly human beings could learn. For me,
that hasn't changed one bit. In every training I have presented
since, when I look back through them, I can remember being
surprised at the end of each one. It seems to me that the rate at
which people in my trainings could learn was always greater than
I had thought they could learn. And after each training, my idea
of how quickly people could learn also became greater. What a
great loop to be part of. . . and to think about how surprised I
will be after this training. . . when I look back and consider
the rate at which all of you. . .
END OF TRANSCRIPT
There are some loops that I have left open, while others I
have closed. I will not be closing some of them until the end of
the training when I am ready to create a conscious amnesia for
the events of the last three days. You would be surprised at how
well this works! People leave my trainings wondering WHAT they
have learned and HOW and WHERE what they have learned will
surface. The reports I receive from my former students is that
they are constantly surprising themselves in their own behavior.
They are always finding themselves doing things easier, with a
greater degree of skill and great deal more FUN. Whenever someone
wants to know what it is I do in my trainings I have them talk to
some of my former students, their opinion is the one that matters
to me here, not my own!
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